There is a time and season for everything.
Just follow the flow. When the door opens all we need do is to walk through it.
Rather than take matters into our hands and bend and mould things willfully and control everything maybe we should just let things be natural. Let things run it’s natural course. Do not resist. Nothing is personal. Pointless to resist. Take it easy. Let go.
Life is like leaves falling. We catch the leaves and then let them go. If you catch a leaf you catch a leaf. If you don’t you don’t.